my mom. Options

[futureman]

my mom has cancer.
she's had it for a while.
i love her probably like you love your mom.
tonight, the doctors told me it is just about done.
her time here is very limited.
that, being the eldest son, i would need to make the choice....when the exact moment comes....i am going to have to make the decision....about whether she goes on the life support...or not.

thats a hard choice.
she has cancer in 99% of her lungs and a lot of other places.
so, i will tell the doc to let her die.

right now, my life sucks like no one can believe.
i've been crying for 12 hours.

sorry, i just needed to tell you guys whats going on.
the weight is heavy.
the night is long.


anyway, i would like to toast her.
she's been an incredible person.
she'smade me what i am.
HERE'S TO YOU, MY MOM.


I LOVE YOU.

futureman.

This post has been edited by futureman: 01/28/05 11:07pm

[realdeal]

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.

[futureman]

thx

[Ice_Cold]

sorry to hear she in my prayers

[Stockguy]

She is also in my prayers. God rest her soul. Were here for you future.

[ThePriest]

Hey futureman ......same here on what realdeals comment ...........and that heaven and earh will pass away but the lords word will allways remain......for i know there is life after death .....not to say that i know all things but to say that i got lucky and had an experience .......knowing that there is life after death ......in the last days all men and woman will have a chance to recieve christ in there heart.....futureman read to her romans 10:8 through 10:13 oh and i know the feeling i just lost my oldest brother last summer......if you want to call or email me ........mrsdsl76@earthlink.net

This post has been edited by realdeal: 01/29/05 12:07am

[futureman]

priest, (and others)i cannot thank you enough for your heart.
i cant really tal;k about it right now....but i will read your passages to her.
i appreciate your sincere concern.
i wont forget that.
ever.

sincerely,
dustin


ps, erase your #...i wouldnt want it to fall into someones hands who doesnt mean well.

This post has been edited by futureman: 01/29/05 12:04am

[DIESEL]

really sorry to hear about it..when a loved one is lost to cancer its really hard to see that person in your life that you thought were invincible when ur a kid and look up to go down hill in such a short time...You realise when your a little older how precious life really is and you cherish that time spent with the loved one....I know I've lost a loved one to cancer and its very hard but the memories must live on and give enough time for the heart to heal...hit me up Future if you ever need to talk man

[Silver]

you seem like a strong person by not giving up on your values and doing whats best for you mother. i feel for you i dread the day my mother passes, we are tight. just look to the positive thought's that are with you and keep them close to your heart. your strong. remember that. do you have a family, if so they are the best people to lean on, if not you always have you friends. good luck and if you need to let some pain go write it out, it helps. god bless and i wish you a gentle moment.

Dan

[Bargod]

I've been where you are now. If you would like to talk, please send me a pm. I work most of tomorrow, but would be more than willing to talk with you.
You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

This post has been edited by Bargod: 01/29/05 5:23am

[.AmbiencE.]

I'm very sorry to hear that future. I've lost a 2 family members from cancer so far, and still have 2 that are battling it. Its a very hard thing to cope with. Keep your head up. Think about all the good things your mothers done, and all the good times youve had with her. Celebrate the life she lived. Take care brother.

[futureman]

thanks for the prayers.
talk to you guys soon.

[D-DayVetLarry]

Future, I'll be honest. I'm so young that I've never lost a family member that I was extremely close too, especially someone who I am close to like my mom. I can imagine what youre going through right now and words can't describe how sorry I am. Stay strong.


You and your family will also be in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.

[PISTOFFBAD]

We are here for you. God Bless

[Bloodhound]

give her our best bro. god bless you guys. tell her that we hope that she enjoys the minutes/hours/days/years she has left. no matter what. tell her that she should do the things she loved most( to a certain degree though). may god help you through your rough time and deep good will with you and your family.Bloodhound 1:1 i know how you feel man. i lost my sister about 3 years ago. its been hard for me and my family. God be with you bro

This post has been edited by Bloodhound: 01/30/05 12:28am