Life Options

[xl-FLAME-lx]

Well guys I just found out that one of my good friends' dad commited suicide last night. He left behind an X-wife, a high schooler, a middle schooler, and an elemetary schooler. The children are devastated right now and are lost not knowing what to do. Let this be a reminder guys that no matter who you are, there is someone out there who truely cares about you and will always remember you. Do not let the person or people who care about you the most become lost in a constant suffering because of a stupid choice you chose to make. God bless those poor kids and woman and may God take care of the man who made just one bad choice.

Let this be a reminder to all of us who have thought of the same choice.

Taylor


This post has been edited by xl-FLAME-lx: 01/07/06 11:53am

[440Cuda]

I've seen it all and deal with people in bad situations at all times.

The worse part of all, the family has to live with it!! I've had to pull young children out of school and try to explain to them what has happened, and no matter what you say to them they always feel like it's their fault. They were not good enough, they should have cleaned there rooms, they should have listened to the parent and not mouthed back. And believe me, for the most part these kids carry it with them the rest of their lives.

God, I have seen it, read the notes left.....if most people have seen what I have, they would never consider it!

Then there is the other side, the loss of a job, drugs, alcoholism, medical conditions, divorce,... that leave people feeling worthless and with no self esteem. Usually the people that do this really believe that it will not effect anyone. Although it always does.

And if the people who are considering it can only wait a few weeks, months, years..(which can seem like forever when they feel alone)..Things do get better!!!!!

Taylor, be strong for your friends, they will need you, maybe not right away...but just dropping by makes a world of difference. My thoughts are with you.