poor conduct by your members Options

[firedawg]

folks i have to say that all of the time ive played your server i have really enjoyed it. our league plays them, mainly uo cassino. ive never had any problems. lord lipton and i have a blast. however dolphin girl and ice cold threatend to kick me because of something i said right off the bat without asking any questions. we talk trash on the cassino server and all have fun until tonight. i said bitch in joking manner to whoever shot me and dolphin girl reacted in a way that is unprofessional at best. ive thought about joining your clan but now have second thoughts. our league donates money to you because you are just about all we play. i just dont know if we will anymore after this. some of these clan members take the {mob} tag a little serious and get on a power trip. this seems to contradict what some of your codes of conduct say. maybe i read them wrong but then again maybe not. just venting and letting you know what went on.

firedawg

[Silver]

LOL, well this is gonna be good.
you called her a bitch (twice) because she bashed you. she gets shit all the time and sorry to tell you these guys stick up for her. You should be more respectful to women...
I dont think your wife would let you call her a bitch would she?

[<Dolphin>*Girl*]

I bashed u and you called me a bitch twice.....And I gave you a warning.....What do you expect?

[Druid]

Just went through the chat log,
You characterize it as they threatened to kick you.
Actually it was a warning, so they wouldn't have to kick you.
If you had continued after being warned, you would of rightfuly been removed from the server.

FireDawg : u bitch
{MOB}[Regs]<Dolphin>Girl : what
FireDawg : bitch
FireDawg : whoever busted me
{MOB}[Regs]<Dolphin>Girl : call me a bitch again and ur kicked
{MOB}Ice_Cold : who dg
FireDawg : ok whatever... i meant it as good shot
{MOB}[Regs]<Dolphin>Girl : firedawg
{MOB}Ice_Cold : one more and your banned
FireDawg : like i said i meant as a comp but hey...
{MOB}[Regs]<Dolphin>Girl : ok
{MOB}[Regs]<Dolphin>Girl : lol
FireDawg : it will be the last donation i make
{MOB}Ice_Cold : sory i didnt know you ment it that way

My question to you would be.
Seeing as how most people would assume <Dolphin>Girl is female because of the name.
Don't you think most people if they were purposely trying to be an ass would say the same thing?
I't not that far of a leap, she would take it that way.

We have never advertised our servers as G-rated.
We go as far as to say the occasion slip is fine.
I think most people would consider it common sense
women would find that word excpecially distasteful, if not disrespecful.

You said you didn't mean it that way and both of them said ok.
I'm surprised you even bothered to post or thought you had a reason to.

[440Cuda]

firedawg:

Being a female and playing on servers with DG all the time, I thought I would respond to this. Responding to her as Bitch is not taken as a compliment. If you had said you were Bitch slapped, then that would have been taken as such. I have never seen DG power trip. DG is a good player. If you are considering getting on MOB why don't you join Vent and get to know us. We all have alot of fun and lots of laughs.

Like Mikie says: "Try it, you'll like it."

Have you ever tried our Barb map?? It's alot of fun too.

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[Lord Lipton]

fire always kids like that. don't take him seriously. he always is a pretty good guy. you just gotta be used to him.

[Lord Lipton]

fire always kids like that. don't take him seriously. he always is a pretty good guy. you just gotta be used to him.

he's right though, him & i joke around all the time. i don't mind him saying bastard or anything to me, maybe he just got a little too comfortable saying it to people, especially to other MOB members.

[Silver]

fire always kids like that. don't take him seriously. he always is a pretty good guy. you just gotta be used to him.

he's right though

huh? who?

[Nothing]

I played last night when this happened and he called me a bbbbeeeeeaaaaattttttcccccchhhhhh. I think it was like that. I didnt take it offensive. I take other comments more offensive than that. Such as when someone accuses me of cheating. I hate that. I do think Ice cold did not need to say one more and he would be banned. Just warn him and tell him to stop. That part is what pissed Firedawg off and it would piss me off too. Especially for only saying Bitch.

Dont get me wrong, he should not have said it. But it doesnt warrant a warning to ban. Just my thoughts.

[Lord Lipton]

fire always kids like that. don't take him seriously. he always is a pretty good guy. you just gotta be used to him.

he's right though

huh? who?

i was saying Firedawg is right, he & i do have a lot of fun & joke around a lot. We do with DDz Nothing alot too, we're all good buddies.

[Ice_Cold]

well dg got called another word on our barb server and after that I started looking out for comments that degraded DG. I'm sorry i said that but i only saw the end of wat was going on


and just to let you know I have never gone on a power trip. everyone i have kicked in the past was for 2 reasons. 1 being an ass and 2 people not getting kicked for high ping 999 so i kicked them

[firedawg]

LOL, well this is gonna be good.
you called her a bitch (twice) because she bashed you. she gets shit all the time and sorry to tell you these guys stick up for her. You should be more respectful to women...
I dont think your wife would let you call her a bitch would she?

it was once actually and i was not calling her a bitch ! I said bitch as in saying damn.. I didnt say "girl u bitch" I was shot and said "bitch as in "son of a". But no worry its really not worth the time spent.. Just thought your clan was different. Thanks for the quick reply. And your right my wife wouldnt.lol.

Just went through the chat log,
You characterize it as they threatened to kick you.
Actually it was a warning, so they wouldn't have to kick you.
If you had continued after being warned, you would of rightfuly been removed from the server.

FireDawg : u bitch
{MOB}[Regs]<Dolphin>Girl : what
FireDawg : bitch
FireDawg : whoever busted me
{MOB}[Regs]<Dolphin>Girl : call me a bitch again and ur kicked
{MOB}Ice_Cold : who dg
FireDawg : ok whatever... i meant it as good shot
{MOB}[Regs]<Dolphin>Girl : firedawg
{MOB}Ice_Cold : one more and your banned
FireDawg : like i said i meant as a comp but hey...
{MOB}[Regs]<Dolphin>Girl : ok
{MOB}[Regs]<Dolphin>Girl : lol
FireDawg : it will be the last donation i make
{MOB}Ice_Cold : sory i didnt know you ment it that way

My question to you would be.
Seeing as how most people would assume <Dolphin>Girl is female because of the name.
Don't you think most people if they were purposely trying to be an ass would say the same thing?
I't not that far of a leap, she would take it that way.

We have never advertised our servers as G-rated.
We go as far as to say the occasion slip is fine.
I think most people would consider it common sense
women would find that word excpecially distasteful, if not disrespecful.

You said you didn't mean it that way and both of them said ok.
I'm surprised you even bothered to post or thought you had a reason to.

I thought i explained it well but i geuss not. The only reason i gues now that i look back at was one of your members dirty harry was present when a couple of guys were using the "n" word and i asked him to do something and he told me to take a screen shot. The i get threatend with a ban for saying "bitch" Mind You i wasnt calling her a bitch i said bitch as in saying damn.

[Isis]

I don't know you, so don't take this the wrong way, but being a female as well I would have to side with DG on this one. I have been called far worse names in game over nothing and it's very disrespectful and offensive, especially when it's a derogatory word, like 'bitch', 'slut', etc. I personally would not have taken it as you saying damn or shit, but as exactly what you said, bitch. You also repeated it after she called you on it, like you didn't notice it pissed her off. I would have reacted the same way as she did and seeing as it's their server I think they have every right to police it as they see fit, especially if you are disrespecting their members. Now that I have said that, where are you guys when I need you?

[colonelbounds]

Firedawg...dude at first you said it was a compliment...now your sayin that it was just like you were mad adn mouthed off somethin...but im with druid on this one...you explain to them that it was a compliment and they were both said ok...so why in the hell do you come in here and post this tread ?? its dumb and pointless !! if yallo got everything straightened out in the server...why bring it in here and disturb us with it ?!?DUMB AND POINTLESS !!!

This post has been edited by colonelbounds: 01/11/06 6:08pm

[Silver]

funny thing is, this happened right after mmmmmmlovely called her a cunt for spawnkilling on barb he then told RD to fuck off... he got banned. and he was a regular as well. just one of them days i guess... poor DG...