poor conduct by your members Options

[gen.gomer-pyle]

i think its time for a group hug or how about a ?

[Dr.Satan(QC)]

First of all....BIG HUG TO YOU ALL I COME IN PEACE!LOL I didn't say that bargod was on a powertrip i didn't even wrote is name and i know that DG took it bad at first and clarify everything after with Dawg but you know isis i have a hard time sayimg to myself that someone could say something on this game to hurt somebody else!!! So if someone call me a Fag i won't be trippin...you can see it when someone say something to hurt you!! If DG have been playin cod for a while i'm sure she's seen other people calling someone a pussy or a bitch and i'm sure she did'nt saw it as an insult!! You know in life you better not be on the defensive all the time feeling attack all the time we're playing it's a game and don't get me wrong it's not ok to call a lady a Bitch or a slut and thinking what you say i don't have any respect for people that are doing that! Cause were will it stop with the banning thing people will ban others because they have a good score but they'll find a reason like he said i was a PUNK! You DG should'nt have threaten Dawg to ban him ask before "are you really thinking with you just said?" Dawg react the same way than DG by saying he would'nt give money anymore or i don't know. He react too fast!! You all got brain think before writting!! And i'm sorry a little "Bitch" or "Biatch" here and there never killed anybody as long as it's said just like that and it's not said to hurt!!

C ya Guys and Gurls!!

PS: Sorry might have a hard time expressing my thought my first language is french!

[Silver]

i have a hard time sayimg to myself that someone could say something on this game to hurt somebody else!!!

I dont know how old you are or if you lack life experience but everyone in life EVERYONE is out to hurt you in one fashion or another, in game or not... (you only get hurt if you expose yourself, thats why i trust no one! I have one friend that i know for a fact would take a bullet for me and I, in return would do the same for him)

second, if she asked how he meant it then as anyone could expect it would have been a joke... and she did say excuse me? and it was repeated... soooooooo.....

[Hellfighter]

Did you read the whole thread???? The way DG handled it after he said it was a compliment was lol...ok, pretty professional.

I am a female and would not call DG..or anyother female at Bitch. I don't swear at people and call them names because they killed me. If you play with people you know and all play that way, then that is fine. When you play with people you don't know you show respect. Why insult them for being a good player???

PS..How old are you...why I am asking is ...do you talk to your mother like that???your wife?? yourgirlfriend? This is not the Jerry Springer Show!!!!!

....... >Take these following things into consideration;
1) No, I'm not a kid if you're implying that.
2) There've been 2 occasions I remember on the server during play when DG was getting sex-gender and I laid smack down on the culprits.
3) Any COD server at all that I have played on where I hear jerk-offs laying sex gender crap on women I'm THE first to pummel the offenders as heavy as possible. That being said, I will wait a few seconds before doing so since the ladies may themselves handle the situation quite nicely on their own with some appropriately 'emasculating' comments - I've seen it on this server a few times.
4) Maybe you're all talk about respecting women, I don't know... but in real life on 3 occasions I've personally jumped into volatile/violent situations between strangers, where a guy was beating on or intimidating his female girlfriend/wife and then turned on me. After which the onlooking crowd that bravely never got involved only muttered high and mightily things like you about men disrespecting women.
5) I'm not brow beating DG and hope she won't take my intrusion here as such, the first time I played with her [if she remembers] we were engaged in blowing up a base which I could've finished off myself cheesily but knowing she hammered it mostly by herself I told her to do it and then even though I was closer to plant the bomb I requested she do it and get all the points since she did all the work.
6) I don't agree with you on treating female warriors playing here like timid wallflowers that can't stand up for themselves- I fully expect MOB to stand up for team members being dissed, I myself was standing up for a CoD chum -who like I said plays on Cassino more and therefore DG and Firedawg aren't too familiar with each other. Firedawg I know meant no insult [they clarified it themselves], but was jovially street-trashing a fellow warrior upon being spawn-owned rather than attempting to belittle DG. The ladies here are gritty players like the guys and anyone demeaning them otherwise will incur my wrath immediately, and I myself like most here look at them as fellow warriors rather than girls playing CoD.
7) Personally I rant and rave as good natured as I can do it but never curse at others in any situation.... I don't have any probs with others doing it to me- I just mock them the next time I kill them. Also take into consideration, when you are on a spawn rampage/or bashing> - unflattering comments will fly about - so don't be very surprised!

So please after all my blabbering I hope you realise my only issue revolves around the 'bitch' word which I've seen some ladies take that term not personally the same way a guy would when they are called 'fag' or 'cock sucker' - even with players they don't know. Sorry Isis but I never hear guys asking for an apology/'sorry' or giving one over the term fag or cocksucker. In that context is it a reason to make a 'ban'-warning. I can see someone kicked w/o warning perhaps for 20 mins., if the admin is not in a good mood. I've been kicked for less in my early days here . And if you read my thread review the part about how RD dealt with a very vulgar player.
True, Firedawg perhaps could've gone the unpublic route of raising the issue, but this is a forum where many may get fresh insight in various ways on this topic..



This post has been edited by Hellfighter: 01/17/06 7:08pm

[Ice_Cold]

I think the point we getting to is that right after he said it i warned hime and he said it was a joke. So i said ok. I have only banned 1 person in my time here at mob. no more that a few hours later i had that person unbanned. Just a fare warning if I see any gender bashing(B***H,C***, ect.) or racist name you get kicked after a warning but if you dont cool it I WILL BAN YOU. NOW Real or Druid please lock this topic

[Hellfighter]

walk up to a female on the street and call her a bitch and most likely you will be in the ER having ur balls retracted... she dont play Cassino so I guess she dont know him or care to at this point... I stand behind what I said regardless... just the way it is...

I agree with the point you stand on. We're playing in game here so you equating what players say online here to people they can't see to what they'd say on a street is totally irrelevant in its comparison. I've been around the with 'streetsmarts' block to actually know under what circumstances what things will or will not likely happen on a street rather than 'should' or be nice to see happen.

[Isis]

I never said he owed her an apology. I said it would have been the more "professional" (as a few of his defenders have so eloquently put it) of him to say so for what started this whole discussion, rather than to come in here complaining about her and saying he would no longer donate to the servers. That's just plain childish and hypocritical if you ask me. I am able to dish it out as well as I can take it, but I try not to make it personal and I also know when to draw the line. Certain words such as bitch, cunt, slut etc. are more offensive to females than males and rightfully so, not that I ask you to fully comprehend this. My point is that DG made it clear that she was offended and Firedawg repeated the same word to her after the fact and then tried to come in here and act like she brought it upon herself? How ludacris can you get? You can sit there and try to say "It's the internet; you shouldn't let it bother you; blah blah blah" all you want, but the fact of the matter is, not everyone sees it that way and someone was offended.

This post has been edited by Isis: 01/17/06 8:23pm

[Dr.Satan(QC)]

i have a hard time sayimg to myself that someone could say something on this game to hurt somebody else!!!

I dont know how old you are or if you lack life experience but everyone in life EVERYONE is out to hurt you in one fashion or another, in game or not... (you only get hurt if you expose yourself, thats why i trust no one! I have one friend that i know for a fact would take a bullet for me and I, in return would do the same for him)

second, if she asked how he meant it then as anyone could expect it would have been a joke... and she did say excuse me? and it was repeated... soooooooo.....

Stop victimizing yourself and stop talking about my age !lololl If someone call you a Bitch be wiser than him and ignore him stand straight and continue on!!!

I don't see everybody as a enemy if you do maybe it's cause you act like that with others!

[Isis]

I'm not sure if you know this Satan, but Dolphin Girl is Silver's wfie, so he has every right to defend her. Regardless of the fact, it's not victimizing, it's called voicing one's opinon about the disrespectful nature of another player. It was made clear that the word was offensive and that should be respected. What is the fucking problem with that? I'm getting the distinct impression that we females are expected to "take it", because we play a male dominated PC game...I hope this isn't the case.

[Dr.Satan(QC)]

I think hellfighter is full of wisdom and he express what i want to say except that the word bitch don't have the same meaning said in a game and said in the street face to face!!!

Love u all!

I'm not sure if you know this Satan, but Dolphin Girl is Silver's wfie, so he has every right to defend her. Regardless of the fact, it's not victimizing, it's called voicing one's opinon about the disrespectful nature of another player. It was made clear that the word was offensive and that should be respected. What is the fucking problem with that? I'm getting the distinct impression that we females are expected to "take it", because we play a male dominated PC game...I hope this isn't the case.

Didn't knew that ...but it didn't change anything about what i say what hapen if i say in the game" oh you bitch" to a player called dragonfly and oups.....it's a girl!! Get my ass kick!

I mean damn it's only a word!!! lolololl i'm losing my head trying to understand what is the problem with that word call me a prick a fag a cocksucker son of a bitch i don't care and most of people don't care!! say that in my face...oups then the situation is not the same the intention is to hurt me! But now we will have to be carefull to what we say when it's a girl ..............



And i was saying he's victimizing himself because he's saying everybody in life is after you or i don't know what ....it's not true!!!! And i've lived enough to know that!!! But by saying that every body is bad with you is victimization!!

[Isis]

It may not have the same meaning to you, but when it is repeatedly "thrown in your face" day in and day out by sexually frustrated, balding, middle-aged men and pimply-faced, sexually inexperienced, middle school-aged boys it starts to wear on you. I don't care what context you use it in, we don't like it, plain and simple. I would love nothing more than to have one of these guys say it TO my face and see which one of my feet makes contact with their balls first. See what I mean? Something to think about next time you call a female a "bitch."

Oh and P.S. As I have already stated it WAS brought to his attention that she is a she and that she did not like being called a bitch, if DG hadn't been offended this would be a different story, but she was and made that clear. If I was to call you a "cock sucker" as you say and you told me it bothered you, I would refrain from doing so any further and if I felt it was warranted I would also make the initiative to apologize. Then again, that's just me...

This post has been edited by Isis: 01/17/06 8:53pm

[Dr.Satan(QC)]

It may not have the same meaning to you, but when it is repeatedly "thrown in your face" day in and day out by sexually frustrated, balding, middle-aged men and pimply-faced, sexually inexperienced, middle school-aged boys it starts to wear on you. I don't care what context you use it in, we don't like it, plain and simple. I would love nothing more than to have one of these guys say it TO my face and see which one of my feet makes contact with their balls first. See what I mean? Something to think about next time you call a female a "bitch."

HIHIHI yeah i know that thers a lot of assholes out there and if people call you a bitch face to face go ahead kick them balls up there throat they deserve it ....but damn not everybody the same i'm sure Dawg said bitch to other people and nothing happen all i want to say is don't take nothing in a GAME personal!!

And i really hope that people don't call you a bitch day in and day out cause you don't talk like a b***h you're full of sense and i understand what you say!!

[Isis]

LoL, trust me I can be a btich when I want to , but it's usually warranted. I'm not saying Firedawg is a bad person for what happened, I'm trying to make it more understood why he got the reaction he did coming from another female persepective.

[Dr.Satan(QC)]

Ok i understand,i'm happy to see you laugh i thought for a minute you were mad!!

Hope i'll game with you some day!

Ps:you're playing Barb? or cod 2?

[Isis]

Heh, I play neither. I am unable to run anything other than some old school MOHAA on my PC and I only grace these fine gentlemen at MOB with my presence, because we all know that you can never tease the boys enough, right DG?